One of the biggest losses people can have in their life is when they lose their job. When someone is made redundant, their experience is normally more than just “they used to be employed at Company X and they no longer work there”. Like anything in life, there are the bare facts of a situation, and there is the emotional side.
People’s negative emotions can flow from worries about how they fear they might cope with the situation. Will they be able to survive financially if they don’t quickly find another job? If they are above 50, they might have further worries that they will be considered past their prime and that hiring companies will look past them and go for younger candidates. What about supporting a family? How will they cope with that whilst they’re out of work?
There is also the sense of identity that a lot of people feel with their work. If someone is a high flying executive and then they are laid off and are struggling to find work, then that may really hit their self-worth. But you don’t need to be a high flier to associate a lot of your self-worth with your job. Many people feel a pride in what they do and to have that taken away from them, against their will, can be quite hard for them to deal with. As I mentioned earlier, it’s not just a case of looking at the bare facts. What someone’s job means to them and how much they link their personal identity to it is an individual’s choice. There is the question of whether it is wise to link your self-worth to things outside of you but the fact remains that many people do this with their job. So coping with the knock to their sense of identity can take some time for them to come to terms with.
The circumstances in which someone left their work can also play a part in their emotional state. In quite a lot of cases bosses use redundancies as an excuse to get rid of staff that they don’t personally get on with, rather than strictly looking at it in terms of who are the best performers and should be kept on. If someone feels, whether rightly or wrongly, that their bosses used redundancies as an excuse to get rid of them, then they may be feeling quite a lot of bitterness. Going straight back into another job may not be that straight forward, if they haven’t come to terms with their intense feelings of anger and frustration. Their emotional issues may need to be dealt with first, before they can move back into the workplace.
Considering some of the intense feelings that people may experience when they have been made redundant, it is always a good idea to look for support. Trying to deal with all this on their own is probably not the best idea. Depending on how someone feels their friends or family would react to their need for emotional support, it may be a good idea to talk these issues through with someone who is outside their usual family or social circle. Whatever works basically.
There is also another angle to emotional issues brought up by redundancies. And that is with the people who have been kept on at work and survived the redundancy chop. They may be feeling some guilt that they have been allowed to stay, whilst some of their friends and former work colleagues have been shown the door. They may also have bigger workloads as a result and this can increase their stress levels.
So you can see that redundancy is more than just another job statistic. There is an emotional side to it that can affect the person laid off, their friends and family, and their former work colleagues who are still working at their former workplace. Which goes to show the importance of work to us and how much it means on a personal level.